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"[People who have affairs] have nightmares about being on the witness stand and having to recount their conduct," he said.
"I've seen people pay a million dollars more than they should have paid, just to avoid the confrontation." Overpayment to a wronged spouse is also a way to duck the messy aftermath of an affair, says Kessler, whose firm, Kessler & Solomiany LLC, exclusively handles divorce cases.
"It's amazing how many people will say, 'just give her the money.
"I know a woman and her lover who would book a hotel room to the tune of ,500 a week.
The self-described "Spy Team" also has a forensics specialist on staff to hack the computers of suspected cheaters, and has even been known to hire female decoys.
"A lot of our clients will say, 'I want you to follow him 24/7.' But we charge 0 per man-hour, plus expenses.
"A man might wind up paying 75 percent of his income to his ex-wife.
It's a way to avoid attorneys, avoid embarrassment and avoid getting the girlfriend involved." Kessler adds that sometimes a person just wants to do the right thing.